Names are our identities. Often, they are deeply rooted in our social and cultural beliefs. Yet, historically, many people have anglicized their names to “fit in,” appear more mainstream, or gain social and cultural advantages in countries with dominant Anglo cultures. But names are more than monikers. Casually anglicizing names is not only disrespectful of people’s cultural heritage and traditions — it is also disrespectful of them. Here’s how to get better at pronouncing names.

• When you don’t know, just ask: Then repeat the name a few times. When people see that you’re committed to getting the pronunciation right, most will appreciate the effort more than they’ll mind minor mispronunciations.
• Be an ally: Add the phonetic spelling of your name to your email signature to help others understand the correct pronunciation of your name. Even if the pronunciation of your name is obvious, adding the phonetic spelling to your email signature may alleviate the social hesitation others feel when doing so.
• Be gracious: Do not show that you are doing them a favor by trying to pronounce their name right or that the effort is onerous for you. Instead, empower and support them.